You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
skip is for real. he knos what hes doing.skip2mylou781 said:8000 posts........
its not even about the posts, its about the fact that the guy whos posted 8000 things has still yet to post ONE thing about his own experiences with women.....teh guy sits on sosuave all day posting little 1 liners and thumbs up which add absolutely nothing to a forum thats about hooking up with chicks!
You're the one that brought up the posts skippy. Like I said earlier, you are completely engrossed in quantity like many kids your age. Then you try to AMOG your way to a reputation which isn't deserved. Then you try to take out your frustration in this forum. You're completely predictable. The only thing that you've been able to do is gain a following of other frustrated guys.skip2mylou781 said:8000 posts........
its not even about the posts, its about the fact that the guy whos posted 8000 things has still yet to post ONE thing about his own experiences with women.....teh guy sits on sosuave all day posting little 1 liners and thumbs up which add absolutely nothing to a forum thats about hooking up with chicks!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Delta said:yeah,
if that was meant to be helpful, a personal message would have been the classy thing to do. instead, he tries to humiliate him in public and grand stand.
is that "alpha"?
delta
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It must be. You came back, after all.skip2mylou781 said:this is all way too funny for me
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You must be a real humanitarian.skip2mylou781 said:YEs i wanna humiliate the SHYT outta lukeskywalker....i wanna put him down, make him feel HORRIBLE, make him feel like a useless peice of crap that he is!!!
and maybe, just MAYBE then he'll look at himself.........and change
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.