That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
skip is for real. he knos what hes doing.skip2mylou781 said:8000 posts........
its not even about the posts, its about the fact that the guy whos posted 8000 things has still yet to post ONE thing about his own experiences with women.....teh guy sits on sosuave all day posting little 1 liners and thumbs up which add absolutely nothing to a forum thats about hooking up with chicks!
You're the one that brought up the posts skippy. Like I said earlier, you are completely engrossed in quantity like many kids your age. Then you try to AMOG your way to a reputation which isn't deserved. Then you try to take out your frustration in this forum. You're completely predictable. The only thing that you've been able to do is gain a following of other frustrated guys.skip2mylou781 said:8000 posts........
its not even about the posts, its about the fact that the guy whos posted 8000 things has still yet to post ONE thing about his own experiences with women.....teh guy sits on sosuave all day posting little 1 liners and thumbs up which add absolutely nothing to a forum thats about hooking up with chicks!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Delta said:yeah,
if that was meant to be helpful, a personal message would have been the classy thing to do. instead, he tries to humiliate him in public and grand stand.
is that "alpha"?
delta
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
It must be. You came back, after all.skip2mylou781 said:this is all way too funny for me
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You must be a real humanitarian.skip2mylou781 said:YEs i wanna humiliate the SHYT outta lukeskywalker....i wanna put him down, make him feel HORRIBLE, make him feel like a useless peice of crap that he is!!!
and maybe, just MAYBE then he'll look at himself.........and change
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.