Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Bvbidd

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Read the last page of the thread where skip talks about Luke.

Notice how some guy with a 3000 posts and a nerdy vocab get's the ear? That's where your going wrong guys, turn the ear to the guys who aren't like that, the guys who have the experience.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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8000 posts........

its not even about the posts, its about the fact that the guy whos posted 8000 things has still yet to post ONE thing about his own experiences with women.....teh guy sits on sosuave all day posting little 1 liners and thumbs up which add absolutely nothing to a forum thats about hooking up with chicks!
 

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LOL! Smartass was trying too hard with his vocab. I mean, I could speak like that...but why would I want to? It was pretty nerdy. That being said however, I think that was pretty messed up Skip calling Luke out like that. I did not think your flame thread thinly disguised as an attempt to inspire him was cool at all. :nono: That was fu.cked up man. Send him a pm or something next time.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
8000 posts........

its not even about the posts, its about the fact that the guy whos posted 8000 things has still yet to post ONE thing about his own experiences with women.....teh guy sits on sosuave all day posting little 1 liners and thumbs up which add absolutely nothing to a forum thats about hooking up with chicks!
skip is for real. he knos what hes doing.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
8000 posts........

its not even about the posts, its about the fact that the guy whos posted 8000 things has still yet to post ONE thing about his own experiences with women.....teh guy sits on sosuave all day posting little 1 liners and thumbs up which add absolutely nothing to a forum thats about hooking up with chicks!
You're the one that brought up the posts skippy. Like I said earlier, you are completely engrossed in quantity like many kids your age. Then you try to AMOG your way to a reputation which isn't deserved. Then you try to take out your frustration in this forum. You're completely predictable. The only thing that you've been able to do is gain a following of other frustrated guys.

If you take the time and to actually open your mind and read through the forum instead of writing posts boosting your own ego, you'll learn well more than you can offer. Perhaps then you'd be able to contribute something more that turmoil.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why did you call him out in the first place. Does his level of progress scare you, does it make you jealous? He's just another internet no-name, such as you, myself and everyone here. Sure, he posts some contridictory stuff to what you know, but that doesn't deserve a call out, and it shouldnt' be a threat to you.




That goes for everybody really, this forum needs a attitude adjustment. Far too often I walk into a thread and the mud slinging has already begun. I've seen a great discussion go to complete sh!t because of two people that bicker back and forth. Such as the case with Viper, Dreamx, Wyldfire and others that either get targeted for no reason at all besides hate, or target for no reason other then to improve their online ego's mental retardation ability by 6 points. I feel for Wyldfire, because she'll post something perfectly fine, and some E-Tard takes a shot at her, and she fires back in defense, and then about 6 other people take part. Why...?

As a community, we have to try to behave with each other...so, everyone, stop the mud slinging festival.
 

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I'm a big fan of letting the crap flow. Filtering through crap is a great skill to learn. Focus on the stuff that matters...
 

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yeah,

if that was meant to be helpful, a personal message would have been the classy thing to do. instead, he tries to humiliate him in public and grand stand.

is that "alpha"?

delta
 

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Delta said:
yeah,

if that was meant to be helpful, a personal message would have been the classy thing to do. instead, he tries to humiliate him in public and grand stand.

is that "alpha"?

delta

YEs i wanna humiliate the SHYT outta lukeskywalker....i wanna put him down, make him feel HORRIBLE, make him feel like a useless peice of crap that he is!!!

and maybe, just MAYBE then he'll look at himself.........and change
 

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Skip, he's not that smart he doesn' understand why he'd feel that way.
Or he's a troll.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Whats wrong with the forum? Most of the Master Don Juans have left, and the Masters that are left cannot handle the work load of the wave of newbies
 

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Nothing...nothing at all. It isn't the forum but its members who will not read the bible or put forth the effort to understand where they're going wrong- instead they want the community to spoon-feed them answers which is a waste of time. Honestly, do you like trying to help people who aren't making a clear effort to help themselves? That is pointless. AFC bashing, flaming each other's posts and discrediting advice only makes it more difficult to seek the truth...anyway, all the information a guy could ever need is already here- everything else(especially the Don Juan Discussion forum) is all but useless. Read the bible, get some direction in life and everything will eventually fall in place. It's simple, really.
 

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MOST USEFUL WAY TO USE THIS FORUM:

1)go to Don Juan Tips section
2)Sort by THREAD RATING
3)read the first 50 threads, all of which are most likely 4+ stars
4)also read DonJuanForever's "I Finally Have It" thread (about how to get laid)

DONE.......the actual discussion forum is commanded by the same 2 trolls (angelus and dreamx) who are still obviously here filling the forum with crap, along with AFCs who never kissed a girl (according to a recent poll) who flame on the 5 or less players that are actually GOOD with girls
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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skip2mylou781 said:
YEs i wanna humiliate the SHYT outta lukeskywalker....i wanna put him down, make him feel HORRIBLE, make him feel like a useless peice of crap that he is!!!

and maybe, just MAYBE then he'll look at himself.........and change
You must be a real humanitarian.
 

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im with skip,the only way someone will learn is to get flamed
 

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Once again.
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That goes for everybody really, this forum needs a attitude adjustment. Far too often I walk into a thread and the mud slinging has already begun. I've seen a great discussion go to complete sh!t because of two people that bicker back and forth. Such as the case with Viper, Dreamx, Wyldfire and others that either get targeted for no reason at all besides hate, or target for no reason other then to improve their online ego's mental retardation ability by 6 points. I feel for Wyldfire, because she'll post something perfectly fine, and some E-Tard takes a shot at her, and she fires back in defense, and then about 6 other people take part. Why...?

As a community, we have to try to behave with each other...so, everyone, stop the mud slinging festival.[/size]
 

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What is wrong with this forum? Lets start with a post like this that doesn't help anyone but alienate and damages the sosuave community.

Nobody is bound here. There is no fee or contract. This is FREE FVCKING ADVICE!! take it or leave it. If you don't like the content, you know where the door is.
 

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Having re evaluated my position, intially I thought skip was simply a multicar pileup in terms of his posting ( ya just have to turn your head and slow down as you drive by, but all in all ya wish the wreck was not there because it simply slows things down)... however now its getting to the point were skip keeps trying to cause more multicar pileups and its just getting to annoying.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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