That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
skip is for real. he knos what hes doing.skip2mylou781 said:8000 posts........
its not even about the posts, its about the fact that the guy whos posted 8000 things has still yet to post ONE thing about his own experiences with women.....teh guy sits on sosuave all day posting little 1 liners and thumbs up which add absolutely nothing to a forum thats about hooking up with chicks!
You're the one that brought up the posts skippy. Like I said earlier, you are completely engrossed in quantity like many kids your age. Then you try to AMOG your way to a reputation which isn't deserved. Then you try to take out your frustration in this forum. You're completely predictable. The only thing that you've been able to do is gain a following of other frustrated guys.skip2mylou781 said:8000 posts........
its not even about the posts, its about the fact that the guy whos posted 8000 things has still yet to post ONE thing about his own experiences with women.....teh guy sits on sosuave all day posting little 1 liners and thumbs up which add absolutely nothing to a forum thats about hooking up with chicks!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Delta said:yeah,
if that was meant to be helpful, a personal message would have been the classy thing to do. instead, he tries to humiliate him in public and grand stand.
is that "alpha"?
delta
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
It must be. You came back, after all.skip2mylou781 said:this is all way too funny for me
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You must be a real humanitarian.skip2mylou781 said:YEs i wanna humiliate the SHYT outta lukeskywalker....i wanna put him down, make him feel HORRIBLE, make him feel like a useless peice of crap that he is!!!
and maybe, just MAYBE then he'll look at himself.........and change
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.