What's wrong with Stoicism?

[jhonny9546]

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There are some good aspects, like outcome independence and learning to let go, but overall Stoicism seems to turn us into passive beings. It feels like having “desire,” “ambition,” or “passion” for something is seen as wrong.

 

[justaroundthecorner]

It's easy to be a stoic when you are Roman emperor or at the position of power, with money and success surrounding you.

For the most of men, stoic approach is something they never practice - not because they do not want to (at least some of them understand the concept) but because things happen and they lack necessary means to deal with them efficiently => hardships take over their stoic approach.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I think it comes down to control OP. Ideally you want to feel your emotions but control them and have the ability to keep them to yourself if you choose.

An inner Italian, outer German if you will. You want to still be in touch with your Inner Italian

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

The idea that stoicism=reserved is a misconception.

You control your emotions, even if you want to be a super charismatic extremely persuasive public speaker. All those emotions that flow into that state are managed.

Stoicism is about discipline, which most people lack these days.

Stoicism teaches you how to consciously decide what emotions are most appropriate to get the outcome you want, and resonate those.

 

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The years when I was closest to Stoicism were the best in terms of relationships and financially stable decisions.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Nothing, so long as you're keeping up with the latest developments https://www.amazon.com/Handbook-New-Stoics-Week-Week/dp/1615195335

Goes without saying, it's wise to not rely EXCLUSIVELY on one "school" of thought, as not even the ancient Stoics did that. They borrowed ideas from the Epicureans, the Skeptics, cultures outside of The Greco-Roman sphere, etc etc