Pretty much every time i have sex, when im done. I just want to leave, and not even talk to the girl. Its wierd, and always happens. Its like after it, my attraction to the girl disapears for like 24 hours. Is this normal?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Originally posted by Jariel
It probably means your attraction to her is purely sexual. It's not uncommon at all, but is a good indication that you're not meant to be long term partners.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No i just feel like i ****ed them, and the attraction to her drops.Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
are you talking about when you get done f*cking, you feel like you really need to get the **** away from the girl because you feel wrong?
I'm pretty sure that's just your natural instincts at work. Males are supposed to run around, humping many different females. Which would explain why you feel very attracted to a woman, then after mating, you want to distance yourself(thus becoming available to more females). Don't you guys watch national geographic or something?Originally posted by Swede54
No i just feel like i ****ed them, and the attraction to her drops.