Pretty much every time i have sex, when im done. I just want to leave, and not even talk to the girl. Its wierd, and always happens. Its like after it, my attraction to the girl disapears for like 24 hours. Is this normal?
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Originally posted by Jariel
It probably means your attraction to her is purely sexual. It's not uncommon at all, but is a good indication that you're not meant to be long term partners.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No i just feel like i ****ed them, and the attraction to her drops.Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
are you talking about when you get done f*cking, you feel like you really need to get the **** away from the girl because you feel wrong?
I'm pretty sure that's just your natural instincts at work. Males are supposed to run around, humping many different females. Which would explain why you feel very attracted to a woman, then after mating, you want to distance yourself(thus becoming available to more females). Don't you guys watch national geographic or something?Originally posted by Swede54
No i just feel like i ****ed them, and the attraction to her drops.