Pretty much every time i have sex, when im done. I just want to leave, and not even talk to the girl. Its wierd, and always happens. Its like after it, my attraction to the girl disapears for like 24 hours. Is this normal?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Whats wrong with me?
- Thread starter Swede54
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
I read in Men's Health magazine that it's normal to feel that way. Different people think differently, so not everyone feels that way though.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nothing wrong with you man. If you don't have the desire to spend time with someone, then don't.
Don't worry about what others think. What do you want? That's all that matters. So what if people don't like what you're doing. To hell with them! Who are they to judge you?
Life's too short man.
-Dominant
Don't worry about what others think. What do you want? That's all that matters. So what if people don't like what you're doing. To hell with them! Who are they to judge you?
Life's too short man.
-Dominant
Dimebag_Darrell
Banned
are you talking about when you get done f*cking, you feel like you really need to get the **** away from the girl because you feel wrong?
I'm pretty sure that's just your natural instincts at work. Males are supposed to run around, humping many different females. Which would explain why you feel very attracted to a woman, then after mating, you want to distance yourself(thus becoming available to more females). Don't you guys watch national geographic or something?