"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Whats wrong with me?

Swede54

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Pretty much every time i have sex, when im done. I just want to leave, and not even talk to the girl. Its wierd, and always happens. Its like after it, my attraction to the girl disapears for like 24 hours. Is this normal?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jariel

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It probably means your attraction to her is purely sexual. It's not uncommon at all, but is a good indication that you're not meant to be long term partners.
 

DJ4Real

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You have Chronic Playertitis Disorder. Yes it's bad to only want women for sex and leave.
 

solace

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Originally posted by Jariel
It probably means your attraction to her is purely sexual. It's not uncommon at all, but is a good indication that you're not meant to be long term partners.

I agree here. I usually want to hit it again in about 10 minutes, myself, but those feeling you talk about is familiar with me.
 

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I read in Men's Health magazine that it's normal to feel that way. Different people think differently, so not everyone feels that way though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dominant

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Nothing wrong with you man. If you don't have the desire to spend time with someone, then don't.

Don't worry about what others think. What do you want? That's all that matters. So what if people don't like what you're doing. To hell with them! Who are they to judge you?

Life's too short man.

-Dominant
 
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are you talking about when you get done f*cking, you feel like you really need to get the **** away from the girl because you feel wrong?
 

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Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
are you talking about when you get done f*cking, you feel like you really need to get the **** away from the girl because you feel wrong?
No i just feel like i ****ed them, and the attraction to her drops.
 

italostud

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Originally posted by Swede54
No i just feel like i ****ed them, and the attraction to her drops.
I'm pretty sure that's just your natural instincts at work. Males are supposed to run around, humping many different females. Which would explain why you feel very attracted to a woman, then after mating, you want to distance yourself(thus becoming available to more females). Don't you guys watch national geographic or something?
 
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