"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's Wrong With Lifting For Women?

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Why are so many Men against the idea of lifting
Never heard this before, I dunno.

I like it if they keep themselves fit etc. so i don't mind.

Just not if they go rampage and do the bodybuilding thing. It doesn't look good as they loose their femininity.
But on the flipside guys that do that to doesn't look very nice either.

This is in my opinion way too much..


She really looks like a trans or a dude...


This looks almost a joke, maybe even photoshopped ha ha But it still makes the point. :lol:
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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using women as your motivation for lifting
 

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Never heard this before, I dunno.

I like it if they keep themselves fit etc. so i don't mind.

Just not if they go rampage and do the bodybuilding thing. It doesn't look good as they loose their femininity.
But on the flipside guys that do that to doesn't look very nice either.

This is in my opinion way too much..


She really looks like a trans or a dude...


This looks almost a joke, maybe even photoshopped ha ha But it still makes the point. :lol:
All women who look like that are on roids, and almost all men are, too. It's an absurd look even for men - why women think it's a good for them is beyond me. Probably mental illness.
 

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All women who look like that are on roids, and almost all men are, too. It's a terrible look for men, but why any women think it's a good idea is beyond me. Probably mental illness.
Never understood why anyone want to look like that. It is so exaggerated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The reason why so many men are against the idea of lifting to get women may be due to social conditioning. Many people grow up thinking that being muscular is masculine, and therefore, it's not considered attractive. As a result, many men shy away from strength training or lifting weights because they don't want to look weak or feminine.
 

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Men going against hitting the gym saying it'll make them look horrible are the same women who say other women hitting the gym will make them look masculine. They point to some extremes; girls taking a bunch of anabolic steroids and (indeed) looking like a man.

I was going to put a picture of a fit guy as an example but only very gay pics appeared, lol. But the point is to look fit (healthy), not a gym rat (like the pictures PowerQuest posted). Clothes will look better and it's a plus when you take your clothes off before banging a chick. Just don't use any excuse to go shirtless like a moron. It's a plus, not your main characteristic. You also have the health reasons. And you also don't want to look like a weakling during an argument with another man.

Deep down most of the stuff we do is improve to be chosen by a female partner and have some sexual gratification. If we think too deep, it shows we're hostages of our own ****.
 
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