"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's Wrong With Lifting For Women?

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Why are so many Men against the idea of lifting
Never heard this before, I dunno.

I like it if they keep themselves fit etc. so i don't mind.

Just not if they go rampage and do the bodybuilding thing. It doesn't look good as they loose their femininity.
But on the flipside guys that do that to doesn't look very nice either.

This is in my opinion way too much..


She really looks like a trans or a dude...


This looks almost a joke, maybe even photoshopped ha ha But it still makes the point. :lol:
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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using women as your motivation for lifting
 

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Never heard this before, I dunno.

I like it if they keep themselves fit etc. so i don't mind.

Just not if they go rampage and do the bodybuilding thing. It doesn't look good as they loose their femininity.
But on the flipside guys that do that to doesn't look very nice either.

This is in my opinion way too much..


She really looks like a trans or a dude...


This looks almost a joke, maybe even photoshopped ha ha But it still makes the point. :lol:
All women who look like that are on roids, and almost all men are, too. It's an absurd look even for men - why women think it's a good for them is beyond me. Probably mental illness.
 

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All women who look like that are on roids, and almost all men are, too. It's a terrible look for men, but why any women think it's a good idea is beyond me. Probably mental illness.
Never understood why anyone want to look like that. It is so exaggerated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The reason why so many men are against the idea of lifting to get women may be due to social conditioning. Many people grow up thinking that being muscular is masculine, and therefore, it's not considered attractive. As a result, many men shy away from strength training or lifting weights because they don't want to look weak or feminine.
 

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Men going against hitting the gym saying it'll make them look horrible are the same women who say other women hitting the gym will make them look masculine. They point to some extremes; girls taking a bunch of anabolic steroids and (indeed) looking like a man.

I was going to put a picture of a fit guy as an example but only very gay pics appeared, lol. But the point is to look fit (healthy), not a gym rat (like the pictures PowerQuest posted). Clothes will look better and it's a plus when you take your clothes off before banging a chick. Just don't use any excuse to go shirtless like a moron. It's a plus, not your main characteristic. You also have the health reasons. And you also don't want to look like a weakling during an argument with another man.

Deep down most of the stuff we do is improve to be chosen by a female partner and have some sexual gratification. If we think too deep, it shows we're hostages of our own ****.
 
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