"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's Wrong With Lifting For Women?

AureliusMaximus

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Why are so many Men against the idea of lifting
Never heard this before, I dunno.

I like it if they keep themselves fit etc. so i don't mind.

Just not if they go rampage and do the bodybuilding thing. It doesn't look good as they loose their femininity.
But on the flipside guys that do that to doesn't look very nice either.

This is in my opinion way too much..


She really looks like a trans or a dude...


This looks almost a joke, maybe even photoshopped ha ha But it still makes the point. :lol:
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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using women as your motivation for lifting
 

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Never heard this before, I dunno.

I like it if they keep themselves fit etc. so i don't mind.

Just not if they go rampage and do the bodybuilding thing. It doesn't look good as they loose their femininity.
But on the flipside guys that do that to doesn't look very nice either.

This is in my opinion way too much..


She really looks like a trans or a dude...


This looks almost a joke, maybe even photoshopped ha ha But it still makes the point. :lol:
All women who look like that are on roids, and almost all men are, too. It's an absurd look even for men - why women think it's a good for them is beyond me. Probably mental illness.
 

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All women who look like that are on roids, and almost all men are, too. It's a terrible look for men, but why any women think it's a good idea is beyond me. Probably mental illness.
Never understood why anyone want to look like that. It is so exaggerated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The reason why so many men are against the idea of lifting to get women may be due to social conditioning. Many people grow up thinking that being muscular is masculine, and therefore, it's not considered attractive. As a result, many men shy away from strength training or lifting weights because they don't want to look weak or feminine.
 

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Men going against hitting the gym saying it'll make them look horrible are the same women who say other women hitting the gym will make them look masculine. They point to some extremes; girls taking a bunch of anabolic steroids and (indeed) looking like a man.

I was going to put a picture of a fit guy as an example but only very gay pics appeared, lol. But the point is to look fit (healthy), not a gym rat (like the pictures PowerQuest posted). Clothes will look better and it's a plus when you take your clothes off before banging a chick. Just don't use any excuse to go shirtless like a moron. It's a plus, not your main characteristic. You also have the health reasons. And you also don't want to look like a weakling during an argument with another man.

Deep down most of the stuff we do is improve to be chosen by a female partner and have some sexual gratification. If we think too deep, it shows we're hostages of our own ****.
 
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