Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
lol... hittin' them with some knowledge!grr said:He died a virgin.
(Twice : )
Of course, any short hairstyle is going to require some cutting. Trust me, I've been skin-bald and tried to fix my hair as it grew out naturally - there's no shape. So short haired people only have options if they will cut it to shape it. Only they have fewer options than longhairs if the longhair is willing to trim to shape his hair. Hair requires cutting to have a style whether it's short or long, but short hair by definition has fewer options.grr said:A person with short hair can have MANY different styles within a month with a little wax, forming cream, or even hairspray. A long haired person can do what? Ponytail, blow dry, or cut it shorter. That's pretty much it.
I'm not talking about getting it styled. I'm talking about getting it cut. Besides, wax, forming cream, or hairspray can all help style hair depending on the hairtype.Hair requires cutting to have a style whether it's short or long, but short hair by definition has fewer options.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I wash and condition it it every morning with a decent product (I use Biolage products), then brush and air dry, sometimes with the light application of an anti-frizz agent and some mousse to give the ends some weight since my hair is fine and prone to both issues. Additonally, I'll use a clarifying shampoo (like Neutrogena) once a week to strip all the build up out of it, and get a professional trim every three weeks or so to keep the ends even and keep split ends from developing.diplomatic_lies said:Curious question to long-haired guys, do you normally spend a lot of time washing your hair? Cuz most long-haired guys at college don't, and they get a hobo smell after a while.