You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
lol... hittin' them with some knowledge!grr said:He died a virgin.
(Twice : )
Of course, any short hairstyle is going to require some cutting. Trust me, I've been skin-bald and tried to fix my hair as it grew out naturally - there's no shape. So short haired people only have options if they will cut it to shape it. Only they have fewer options than longhairs if the longhair is willing to trim to shape his hair. Hair requires cutting to have a style whether it's short or long, but short hair by definition has fewer options.grr said:A person with short hair can have MANY different styles within a month with a little wax, forming cream, or even hairspray. A long haired person can do what? Ponytail, blow dry, or cut it shorter. That's pretty much it.
I'm not talking about getting it styled. I'm talking about getting it cut. Besides, wax, forming cream, or hairspray can all help style hair depending on the hairtype.Hair requires cutting to have a style whether it's short or long, but short hair by definition has fewer options.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I wash and condition it it every morning with a decent product (I use Biolage products), then brush and air dry, sometimes with the light application of an anti-frizz agent and some mousse to give the ends some weight since my hair is fine and prone to both issues. Additonally, I'll use a clarifying shampoo (like Neutrogena) once a week to strip all the build up out of it, and get a professional trim every three weeks or so to keep the ends even and keep split ends from developing.diplomatic_lies said:Curious question to long-haired guys, do you normally spend a lot of time washing your hair? Cuz most long-haired guys at college don't, and they get a hobo smell after a while.