That's because you're a fvcking retard and need a boot the the fvcking face. :trouble: You think all black people are gang-bangers too?diplomatic_lies said:Actually when I see someone with long hair, I think they're either goths, or druggies.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That's because you're a fvcking retard and need a boot the the fvcking face. :trouble: You think all black people are gang-bangers too?diplomatic_lies said:Actually when I see someone with long hair, I think they're either goths, or druggies.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bvbidd said:If you want chicks, just keep your hair cut. Not saying it needs to be cut short short short, it doesn't. But when it gets to the point of needing to be tied back or whatever, that is a turn off to girls. Most anyways - Female Goths and Druggies are still around.
Nice point. Actually, I noticed a pattern in longhairs. Highschool freshmen and sophomores with longhair are usually the ****y guys who girls lust after. In junior and senior year, even some uncool or unknown guys grow out their hair thinking they will become beautiful all of a sudden. These guys usually become losers or outcasts in their 20s and decide not to give a shìt about the world laughing at them, while the cool guys have cut their hair, in order not to be associated with them outcasts.Archaxis said:Dude, based on what... your own lame bigoted perception? A well, presented, good looking guy with long hair has just as much of a chance of pulling a girl as as one with short hair. If Johnny Depp walks in with long locks (in fact, many, many male celebrities have had long hair at one point or another and they didn't become ugly), HB is still going lick her lips. Maybe the long haired guys you know are all ugly, dirtbags our clique-kids, but a friggen' girl sees the difference between someone like that and someone like myself who isn't. There are just as many goths and druggies (more actually) with short hair. You know who they are by other things than the length of their hair.
In my humble (and long haired) opinon, it's going to be like ANYTHING else (like, say, SHORT HAIR, for that matter) and there's going to be a million different reasons for a million different people. They'll fall into JUST as many categories as short hair: It might be for rebellion, conformity, beutification, trendy style, personal statement, etc., etc., etc. or a variety of reasons at once. One person, like myself, might keep it long, simple, clean and trimmed, like any simple, classic, suave SHORT haircut as my personality reflects that to a certain degree... someone else might have a long dreadlock style haircut that might parallel a short, rebellious crop with dyed spikes, or whatnot.Adone said:Nice point. Actually, I noticed a pattern in longhairs. Highschool freshmen and sophomores with longhair are usually the ****y guys who girls lust after. In junior and senior year, even some uncool or unknown guys grow out their hair thinking they will become beautiful all of a sudden. These guys usually become losers or outcasts in their 20s and decide not to give a shìt about the world laughing at them, while the cool guys have cut their hair, in order not to be associated with them outcasts.
Only some guys who do pretty well with ladies and don't give a shìt about who associates who with who, keep their hair long or grow it out after high school and still do pretty good with ladies.
Just my sociology 2c
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dude, thanks for the praise... I pretty much do the respectful, charaismatic alpha kind of thing. I speak my mind, try not to unnecessarily demean others, and take no one's B.S. and downtalking in general. That pic is from about 8-months back, I actually have a goatee now. It seems to work with the look, and I like it. It's just a pain to keep trimmed, as I'm a bit of a perfectionist.doctoroxygen said:Archaxis, you are one good-looking cat. Your appearance indicates you are subordinate and obedient to no man. Have you thought about growing a beard?
Archaxis said:That's because you're a fvcking retard and need a boot the the fvcking face. You think all black people are gang-bangers too?
:crackup:Archaxis said:I pretty much do the respectful, charaismatic alpha kind of thing.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
diplomatic_lies said::crackup:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
grr said:For the record I've never known a guy worth mentioning who had long hair and didn't eventually go short.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.