That's because you're a fvcking retard and need a boot the the fvcking face. :trouble: You think all black people are gang-bangers too?diplomatic_lies said:Actually when I see someone with long hair, I think they're either goths, or druggies.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That's because you're a fvcking retard and need a boot the the fvcking face. :trouble: You think all black people are gang-bangers too?diplomatic_lies said:Actually when I see someone with long hair, I think they're either goths, or druggies.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Bvbidd said:If you want chicks, just keep your hair cut. Not saying it needs to be cut short short short, it doesn't. But when it gets to the point of needing to be tied back or whatever, that is a turn off to girls. Most anyways - Female Goths and Druggies are still around.
Nice point. Actually, I noticed a pattern in longhairs. Highschool freshmen and sophomores with longhair are usually the ****y guys who girls lust after. In junior and senior year, even some uncool or unknown guys grow out their hair thinking they will become beautiful all of a sudden. These guys usually become losers or outcasts in their 20s and decide not to give a shìt about the world laughing at them, while the cool guys have cut their hair, in order not to be associated with them outcasts.Archaxis said:Dude, based on what... your own lame bigoted perception? A well, presented, good looking guy with long hair has just as much of a chance of pulling a girl as as one with short hair. If Johnny Depp walks in with long locks (in fact, many, many male celebrities have had long hair at one point or another and they didn't become ugly), HB is still going lick her lips. Maybe the long haired guys you know are all ugly, dirtbags our clique-kids, but a friggen' girl sees the difference between someone like that and someone like myself who isn't. There are just as many goths and druggies (more actually) with short hair. You know who they are by other things than the length of their hair.
In my humble (and long haired) opinon, it's going to be like ANYTHING else (like, say, SHORT HAIR, for that matter) and there's going to be a million different reasons for a million different people. They'll fall into JUST as many categories as short hair: It might be for rebellion, conformity, beutification, trendy style, personal statement, etc., etc., etc. or a variety of reasons at once. One person, like myself, might keep it long, simple, clean and trimmed, like any simple, classic, suave SHORT haircut as my personality reflects that to a certain degree... someone else might have a long dreadlock style haircut that might parallel a short, rebellious crop with dyed spikes, or whatnot.Adone said:Nice point. Actually, I noticed a pattern in longhairs. Highschool freshmen and sophomores with longhair are usually the ****y guys who girls lust after. In junior and senior year, even some uncool or unknown guys grow out their hair thinking they will become beautiful all of a sudden. These guys usually become losers or outcasts in their 20s and decide not to give a shìt about the world laughing at them, while the cool guys have cut their hair, in order not to be associated with them outcasts.
Only some guys who do pretty well with ladies and don't give a shìt about who associates who with who, keep their hair long or grow it out after high school and still do pretty good with ladies.
Just my sociology 2c
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dude, thanks for the praise... I pretty much do the respectful, charaismatic alpha kind of thing. I speak my mind, try not to unnecessarily demean others, and take no one's B.S. and downtalking in general. That pic is from about 8-months back, I actually have a goatee now. It seems to work with the look, and I like it. It's just a pain to keep trimmed, as I'm a bit of a perfectionist.doctoroxygen said:Archaxis, you are one good-looking cat. Your appearance indicates you are subordinate and obedient to no man. Have you thought about growing a beard?
Archaxis said:That's because you're a fvcking retard and need a boot the the fvcking face. You think all black people are gang-bangers too?
:crackup:Archaxis said:I pretty much do the respectful, charaismatic alpha kind of thing.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
diplomatic_lies said::crackup:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
grr said:For the record I've never known a guy worth mentioning who had long hair and didn't eventually go short.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.