"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What's "too many dates" ?

The_Wolf

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Why not go out with her a few nights a week (4 tops).

Since I read the bible I am under the impression (it was quite a while ago, btw) that when you first meet a woman you should not meet her so much.

But when I have a night off (work), why not chill with her? So what if we saw each other 2 nights ago.


Am I missing something here?


Thank bros :)
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The_Wolf said:
Why not go out with her a few nights a week (4 tops).

Since I read the bible I am under the impression (it was quite a while ago, btw) that when you first meet a woman you should not meet her so much.

But when I have a night off (work), why not chill with her? So what if we saw each other 2 nights ago.


Am I missing something here?


Thank bros :)
Yes you are missing something here. You are missing the point.

rules are'nt rules just to piss you off. They are rules/guidelines for a reason. If you don't understand them (which you ovbiously don't) just follow them until you do.

here is why:

What happens when you buy a new video game and play it everynight for 3 weeks straight?

What happens when you get a new job working at a fast food joint, and eat the food everyday for 2 months straight (besides being fat)?

YOU GET TIRED OF IT


There are bigger, WAY bigger issues at play here, but I won't dive into them as I am afraid I might loose ya. Let's start with the simple notion that you can't miss what's there constantly. The newness wears off quickly. the only thing getting you buy now is the newness of the relationship.

give her something to miss. Give her time to think about the time you had when you did see her. Give her time to think about if you are thinking about her. Give her the time to tell all your friends how cool you are and to gossip. Let yourself get away before you get clamped on to this chick. This is the **** women get off on.

Same goes for the phone as well
 

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If you are spending 4 evenings a week with your girl, how are you ever going to get ahead with your life? I think 3 MAX is a great balance...and even then, keep it short. I've seen too many worthless lives spawned from over-familiarity in relationships!
 

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slow, slow.. don't loose him. I didn't even want to go there. I doubt he's ready to hear that yet. One thing at a time. rome wasn't built in a day.

BTW... 1 time for me is lucky
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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