"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's "too many dates" ?

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Why not go out with her a few nights a week (4 tops).

Since I read the bible I am under the impression (it was quite a while ago, btw) that when you first meet a woman you should not meet her so much.

But when I have a night off (work), why not chill with her? So what if we saw each other 2 nights ago.


Am I missing something here?


Thank bros :)
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The_Wolf said:
Why not go out with her a few nights a week (4 tops).

Since I read the bible I am under the impression (it was quite a while ago, btw) that when you first meet a woman you should not meet her so much.

But when I have a night off (work), why not chill with her? So what if we saw each other 2 nights ago.


Am I missing something here?


Thank bros :)
Yes you are missing something here. You are missing the point.

rules are'nt rules just to piss you off. They are rules/guidelines for a reason. If you don't understand them (which you ovbiously don't) just follow them until you do.

here is why:

What happens when you buy a new video game and play it everynight for 3 weeks straight?

What happens when you get a new job working at a fast food joint, and eat the food everyday for 2 months straight (besides being fat)?

YOU GET TIRED OF IT


There are bigger, WAY bigger issues at play here, but I won't dive into them as I am afraid I might loose ya. Let's start with the simple notion that you can't miss what's there constantly. The newness wears off quickly. the only thing getting you buy now is the newness of the relationship.

give her something to miss. Give her time to think about the time you had when you did see her. Give her time to think about if you are thinking about her. Give her the time to tell all your friends how cool you are and to gossip. Let yourself get away before you get clamped on to this chick. This is the **** women get off on.

Same goes for the phone as well
 

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If you are spending 4 evenings a week with your girl, how are you ever going to get ahead with your life? I think 3 MAX is a great balance...and even then, keep it short. I've seen too many worthless lives spawned from over-familiarity in relationships!
 

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slow, slow.. don't loose him. I didn't even want to go there. I doubt he's ready to hear that yet. One thing at a time. rome wasn't built in a day.

BTW... 1 time for me is lucky
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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