The_Wolf said:
Why not go out with her a few nights a week (4 tops).
Since I read the bible I am under the impression (it was quite a while ago, btw) that when you first meet a woman you should not meet her so much.
But when I have a night off (work), why not chill with her? So what if we saw each other 2 nights ago.
Am I missing something here?
Thank bros
Yes you are missing something here. You are missing the point.
rules are'nt rules just to piss you off. They are rules/guidelines for a reason. If you don't understand them (which you ovbiously don't) just follow them until you do.
here is why:
What happens when you buy a new video game and play it everynight for 3 weeks straight?
What happens when you get a new job working at a fast food joint, and eat the food everyday for 2 months straight (besides being fat)?
YOU GET TIRED OF IT
There are bigger, WAY bigger issues at play here, but I won't dive into them as I am afraid I might loose ya. Let's start with the simple notion that you can't miss what's there constantly. The newness wears off quickly. the only thing getting you buy now is the newness of the relationship.
give her something to miss. Give her time to think about the time you had when you did see her. Give her time to think about if you are thinking about her. Give her the time to tell all your friends how cool you are and to gossip. Let yourself get away before you get clamped on to this chick. This is the **** women get off on.
Same goes for the phone as well