Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FcJScBLIEX4
Right off the bat I would neg this girl and tell her she can't dance
Right off the bat I would neg this girl and tell her she can't dance
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What's the first thing you would say to this girl?
- Thread starter Vantagepoint34
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Hey, you remind me of my niece. She danced like that in her fourth grade talent show. Is that dance popular with all the kids? Are you a teacher?
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Haha nice one. It's funny how when we grow up we want to regress to when we were children. And when we are little we want to grow up. Grass is greener on the other side philosophy.taiyuu_otoko said:
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
"Hey you're Kate Upton, nice to meet you!"
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.