Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FcJScBLIEX4
Right off the bat I would neg this girl and tell her she can't dance
Right off the bat I would neg this girl and tell her she can't dance
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What's the first thing you would say to this girl?
- Thread starter Vantagepoint34
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Hey, you remind me of my niece. She danced like that in her fourth grade talent show. Is that dance popular with all the kids? Are you a teacher?
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Haha nice one. It's funny how when we grow up we want to regress to when we were children. And when we are little we want to grow up. Grass is greener on the other side philosophy.taiyuu_otoko said:
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
"Hey you're Kate Upton, nice to meet you!"
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.