Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FcJScBLIEX4
Right off the bat I would neg this girl and tell her she can't dance
Right off the bat I would neg this girl and tell her she can't dance
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What's the first thing you would say to this girl?
- Thread starter Vantagepoint34
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Hey, you remind me of my niece. She danced like that in her fourth grade talent show. Is that dance popular with all the kids? Are you a teacher?
Vantagepoint34
Master Don Juan
Haha nice one. It's funny how when we grow up we want to regress to when we were children. And when we are little we want to grow up. Grass is greener on the other side philosophy.taiyuu_otoko said:
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
"Hey you're Kate Upton, nice to meet you!"
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.