MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What's the deal with this dating website?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
blue_eyed_devil
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You know, I dated an ex-college volleyball player. U of Wisconsin, IIRC. She was 6 feet tall, broad-shouldered, brunette but built like Sally from Third Rock. That, to me, is a Big Beautiful Woman.
No fat chicks. Ever.
No fat chicks. Ever.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I married a 120-pound beauty pageant queen who then gained 100 pounds after we got married. Then I found her personal ads on http://bbwdatefinder.com/
I only wish I was making this up...
I only wish I was making this up...
jophil28
Master Don Juan
What the F does BBW stand for ? Big Beached Whales ?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
one of my good buddys from college dated than married a chick who was in pageants. I met her years ago when they first started dating and this girl was a lagit good looking 7-8. Just saw some pictures on facebook and she has put on at least a solid 30-40 and they are married.Bible_Belt said:
gotta say, my biggest fear hands down is marrying a chick who lets themselves balloon like this. next biggest fear is dying in a terrorist attack , followed by getting tarred and feathered. its 2:30am and I am making up stupid **** to post at this point so i'll just stop here!
teacha
Senior Don Juan
OH LA LA LA....big beautiful women here i come.