"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Eternal
I'm sure you two will spend the day getting off...;)
you have been hiding in our linen closet, haha !! busted!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by penkitten
you have been hiding in our linen closet, haha !! busted!!
Wait, no, I just...Erm...Had to clean it out. You know how messy it can get in there...

*Turns off camera.*
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
Wait, no, I just...Erm...Had to clean it out. You know how messy it can get in there...

*Turns off camera.*

is that the unsensored version?
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
is that the unsensored version?
Of course. Who would want a censored version? That'd be like having fat-free lard.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Money...and more money.

Cash, money, "benjamins," money, coins, money, greenbacks, money, green stuff, money, and more money.

Did I mention that I want money?

:)

It's the universal gift certificate that never expires. Plus, unlike other things, you WANT to have as many duplicates as possible.

Ben

P.S. Jewelry won't be so bad either, but I'd still rather have more money.
 

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-Dvd Burner
-Tivo or similar tv recorder
-iPod (because my archos sucks balls)
-Banana Republic Sweater
-Clothes, clothes and more clothes


God Penkitten, Gio, and eternal... Can you guys join a thread without derailing it?
 

Eternal

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Originally posted by Vincent
-Dvd Burner
-Tivo or similar tv recorder
-iPod (because my archos sucks balls)
-Banana Republic Sweater
-Clothes, clothes and more clothes


God Penkitten, Gio, and eternal... Can you guys join a thread without derailing it?
There was that one back in '92...
 

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derailing.. lol.

I have an image of a sosuave.com family...
Gio with Pen and Eternal as their... dog.


I don't really want anything.
Well, money could come handy.
 

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I just want to get gas money and Spider-man 2 on DVD. I also think that I am getting Elf on DVD also.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I could use a new leather trench coat.:D






Hint hint. ;)
 
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