"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What's More Satiating: Protein or Fats?

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I'm a big IIFYM(If It Fits Your Macros) and CICO(Calories In Calories Out) kind of guy. Following these two things has enabled me to lose 12 lbs so far.

That being said, I know that one of the keys to succeeding on your diet is not being hungry.

What fills you up more, protein or fats? I know that most fitness gurus say that you should eat more protein because it is filling.

I've found also that whenever I eat something with fat, like ground chicken and some avocado/light sour cream, a sausage, or a fattier meat like ground chuck, it fills me up. I don't really have the desire to stuff my face anymore.

So I was wondering, do you guys know what's more Satiating, protein or fats? Or do I just try to eat both to fill me up and not even worry about it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fats. Proteins have to be converted to be used as energy. There’s a plus there though. More calories to convert than you gain if done right.
Yeah, I'm starting to agree. I had a sausage for lunch, and I'm actually super full. I noticed the same thing when I started adding more avocado to my ground chicken. Then I don't want to eat as much, which helps me stay in a calorie deficit.
 

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I'm a big IIFYM(If It Fits Your Macros) and CICO(Calories In Calories Out) kind of guy. Following these two things has enabled me to lose 12 lbs so far.

That being said, I know that one of the keys to succeeding on your diet is not being hungry.

What fills you up more, protein or fats? I know that most fitness gurus say that you should eat more protein because it is filling.

I've found also that whenever I eat something with fat, like ground chicken and some avocado/light sour cream, a sausage, or a fattier meat like ground chuck, it fills me up. I don't really have the desire to stuff my face anymore.

So I was wondering, do you guys know what's more Satiating, protein or fats? Or do I just try to eat both to fill me up and not even worry about it?
It depends.

When Im eating natural foods, even carbs I dont feel hunger.

But when I drink alcohol, eat sugar or processed foods. It take down my balance and I crave more for bad foods. And get hungry easier.

Caffeine has the same effect.
 

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Oatmeal has the highest satiety value of any food. Also apples rank high on this list.
As does plain old water.

But to answer your question, they both can depending on what it is...
 

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Oatmeal has the highest satiety value of any food. Also apples rank high on this list.
As does plain old water.

But to answer your question, they both can depending on what it is...
Oatmeal really do that! Its pretty good... I'm just abit affraid of it containing gluten... but I don't think it create so much problem for me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I won’t touch it. Not a chance. It was sold in the media to heart patients. It did a lot of damage. Not as much as soy but close.

Soy is one of the cheapest things to grow. Huge profit margin for food producers. It will turn a man into a girl with estrogic effects.
Yep! I dont even get close to soy... I've tried a protein powder made by soy protein... The worse experience in my life... Fcked my results.
 

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I know that most fitness gurus say that you should eat more protein because it is filling.
I believe this is incorrect.

According to my experience, fat is WAY more filling than protein.

Protein is good too, so whatever mix works for you is best.

I'd recommend getting a good mix, like a really thick, well marbled steak.

And some bacon, followed by a couple shots of Jack, then some more bacon.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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