"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GoodOne123

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I was on a roll recently. I was pulling 1 or 2 girls a night at the club every week. This was going on for a month straight.

But I just went out this weekend to the club, and didn't pull anything! I only got two dances though. Both girls were dragged away from me by their friends.

I'm so confused I didn't get to pull even though I tried...

When I go out to the club I get girls calling me good looking, a good dancer etc, and that I should have no problem getting a dance. But this time it was tough!

It's discouraging when a night is not so fruitful, like the one I just went to. It can make it worse if you see other guys pulling but not you. It can make you doubt yourself, especially if a girl rejects you harshly!

My question is why is it hard sometimes? Shouldn't I have no issues 100% of the time, especially if I'm seen as good looking etc? I've been told I can dance well too, so what could it be?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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