"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What's better for picking up girls. Clubs/bars or the mall

YoungSir4sho

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Yea I usually do the day game. At malls n train station but lately haven't got any good results. Only did the bar n club one time each a year ago. Is clubs better for getting girls for lays n such n why.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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YoungSir4sho said:
Because they're usually drunk, and drunk girls will do Anything.
 

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YoungSir4sho said:
Yea I usually do the day game. At malls n train station but lately haven't got any good results. Only did the bar n club one time each a year ago. Is clubs better for getting girls for lays n such n why.
The mall? I haven't gone there to pick up chicks since I was a sophomore in high school.

If you're looking for easy sex, clubs/bars hands down. If you're looking for a nice girl for an LTR, try bookstores or coffee shops. If you're looking to get busted on Dateline by Chris Hansen, try Myspace.
 

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Imma keep it real. I used to b the king of online dating. 1st im done wit all of the myspace n plentyoffish n other bs. Its jus a waste of time. I mean u might get lucky n get a couple of good ones but a lot of them got head cases.

Tell u the truth what's easier for lays is the phone chatlines. Like vibeline,tango,livelinks. Just get the freetrials n u get 60freeminutes. There's a secret for getting a lot of them also...

All in all talking to girls outside is the best way
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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As far as I'm concerned, meeting women at the malls is fine for high school.

My best luck usually comes from sports bars, as long as they're the trendy type, because most dive bars don't have cute ones. Clubs are alright as well, but I'm not a huge dancer. You can get away with it but not as often as at a sports bar.

I met a hottie at my local Cheers tonight. Just came up to say hi to the bartender, the girls next to me thought it was cool I knew the employees, then we started talking. Number closed her in a couple minutes then went on with life.
 

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YoungSir4sho said:
Yea I usually do the day game. At malls n train station but lately haven't got any good results. Only did the bar n club one time each a year ago. Is clubs better for getting girls for lays n such n why.
day game is easier than night game. But do both if you are single and really need some success asap.
 

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Imma keep it real. I used to b the king of online dating. 1st im done wit all of the myspace n plentyoffish n other bs. Its jus a waste of time. I mean u might get lucky n get a couple of good ones but a lot of them got head cases.

Tell u the truth what's easier for lays is the phone chatlines. Like vibeline,tango,livelinks. Just get the freetrials n u get 60freeminutes. There's a secret for getting a lot of them also...

All in all talking to girls outside is the best way
I'm really interested in hearing more about the phone chat lines. What city do you do this in? Do you actually meet these chicks in person? Are there actually women that use this that aren't fat and/or ugly? I've used every method under the sun to get laid except this, so I want to hear more.
 

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There's a lot of ugly n fat girls on there. But lickily there's a lot of decent n good lookin girls on there too. I've had to at least met 10girls from off their. All 8 of them looked good. 4 of them lays.

I live in nyc so at about 10pm n after about 8o and more girls b on the vibe chatline. N for livelinks about 60 sumthing n more till about 2am then it dies down. I suggest all to try it.

Of course outside in the real world is the best route to go n I rather succeed on that level
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just get the freetrials n u get 60freeminutes. There's a secret for getting a lot of them also...

All in all talking to girls outside is the best way

Whats the secret ?
 
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