"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What's better for picking up girls. Clubs/bars or the mall

YoungSir4sho

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Yea I usually do the day game. At malls n train station but lately haven't got any good results. Only did the bar n club one time each a year ago. Is clubs better for getting girls for lays n such n why.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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YoungSir4sho said:
Because they're usually drunk, and drunk girls will do Anything.
 

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YoungSir4sho said:
Yea I usually do the day game. At malls n train station but lately haven't got any good results. Only did the bar n club one time each a year ago. Is clubs better for getting girls for lays n such n why.
The mall? I haven't gone there to pick up chicks since I was a sophomore in high school.

If you're looking for easy sex, clubs/bars hands down. If you're looking for a nice girl for an LTR, try bookstores or coffee shops. If you're looking to get busted on Dateline by Chris Hansen, try Myspace.
 

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Imma keep it real. I used to b the king of online dating. 1st im done wit all of the myspace n plentyoffish n other bs. Its jus a waste of time. I mean u might get lucky n get a couple of good ones but a lot of them got head cases.

Tell u the truth what's easier for lays is the phone chatlines. Like vibeline,tango,livelinks. Just get the freetrials n u get 60freeminutes. There's a secret for getting a lot of them also...

All in all talking to girls outside is the best way
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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As far as I'm concerned, meeting women at the malls is fine for high school.

My best luck usually comes from sports bars, as long as they're the trendy type, because most dive bars don't have cute ones. Clubs are alright as well, but I'm not a huge dancer. You can get away with it but not as often as at a sports bar.

I met a hottie at my local Cheers tonight. Just came up to say hi to the bartender, the girls next to me thought it was cool I knew the employees, then we started talking. Number closed her in a couple minutes then went on with life.
 

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YoungSir4sho said:
Yea I usually do the day game. At malls n train station but lately haven't got any good results. Only did the bar n club one time each a year ago. Is clubs better for getting girls for lays n such n why.
day game is easier than night game. But do both if you are single and really need some success asap.
 

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Imma keep it real. I used to b the king of online dating. 1st im done wit all of the myspace n plentyoffish n other bs. Its jus a waste of time. I mean u might get lucky n get a couple of good ones but a lot of them got head cases.

Tell u the truth what's easier for lays is the phone chatlines. Like vibeline,tango,livelinks. Just get the freetrials n u get 60freeminutes. There's a secret for getting a lot of them also...

All in all talking to girls outside is the best way
I'm really interested in hearing more about the phone chat lines. What city do you do this in? Do you actually meet these chicks in person? Are there actually women that use this that aren't fat and/or ugly? I've used every method under the sun to get laid except this, so I want to hear more.
 

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There's a lot of ugly n fat girls on there. But lickily there's a lot of decent n good lookin girls on there too. I've had to at least met 10girls from off their. All 8 of them looked good. 4 of them lays.

I live in nyc so at about 10pm n after about 8o and more girls b on the vibe chatline. N for livelinks about 60 sumthing n more till about 2am then it dies down. I suggest all to try it.

Of course outside in the real world is the best route to go n I rather succeed on that level
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just get the freetrials n u get 60freeminutes. There's a secret for getting a lot of them also...

All in all talking to girls outside is the best way

Whats the secret ?
 
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