YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
Yea I usually do the day game. At malls n train station but lately haven't got any good results. Only did the bar n club one time each a year ago. Is clubs better for getting girls for lays n such n why.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What's better for picking up girls. Clubs/bars or the mall
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Because they're usually drunk, and drunk girls will do Anything.YoungSir4sho said:
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
Like scream rape.Poonani Maker said:
The mall? I haven't gone there to pick up chicks since I was a sophomore in high school.YoungSir4sho said:
If you're looking for easy sex, clubs/bars hands down. If you're looking for a nice girl for an LTR, try bookstores or coffee shops. If you're looking to get busted on Dateline by Chris Hansen, try Myspace.
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
Imma keep it real. I used to b the king of online dating. 1st im done wit all of the myspace n plentyoffish n other bs. Its jus a waste of time. I mean u might get lucky n get a couple of good ones but a lot of them got head cases.
Tell u the truth what's easier for lays is the phone chatlines. Like vibeline,tango,livelinks. Just get the freetrials n u get 60freeminutes. There's a secret for getting a lot of them also...
All in all talking to girls outside is the best way
Tell u the truth what's easier for lays is the phone chatlines. Like vibeline,tango,livelinks. Just get the freetrials n u get 60freeminutes. There's a secret for getting a lot of them also...
All in all talking to girls outside is the best way
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
As far as I'm concerned, meeting women at the malls is fine for high school.
My best luck usually comes from sports bars, as long as they're the trendy type, because most dive bars don't have cute ones. Clubs are alright as well, but I'm not a huge dancer. You can get away with it but not as often as at a sports bar.
I met a hottie at my local Cheers tonight. Just came up to say hi to the bartender, the girls next to me thought it was cool I knew the employees, then we started talking. Number closed her in a couple minutes then went on with life.
My best luck usually comes from sports bars, as long as they're the trendy type, because most dive bars don't have cute ones. Clubs are alright as well, but I'm not a huge dancer. You can get away with it but not as often as at a sports bar.
I met a hottie at my local Cheers tonight. Just came up to say hi to the bartender, the girls next to me thought it was cool I knew the employees, then we started talking. Number closed her in a couple minutes then went on with life.
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Not if you got it all on video.Rhoto said:
daygameguy
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day game is easier than night game. But do both if you are single and really need some success asap.YoungSir4sho said:
I'm really interested in hearing more about the phone chat lines. What city do you do this in? Do you actually meet these chicks in person? Are there actually women that use this that aren't fat and/or ugly? I've used every method under the sun to get laid except this, so I want to hear more.YoungSir4sho said:
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
There's a lot of ugly n fat girls on there. But lickily there's a lot of decent n good lookin girls on there too. I've had to at least met 10girls from off their. All 8 of them looked good. 4 of them lays.
I live in nyc so at about 10pm n after about 8o and more girls b on the vibe chatline. N for livelinks about 60 sumthing n more till about 2am then it dies down. I suggest all to try it.
Of course outside in the real world is the best route to go n I rather succeed on that level
I live in nyc so at about 10pm n after about 8o and more girls b on the vibe chatline. N for livelinks about 60 sumthing n more till about 2am then it dies down. I suggest all to try it.
Of course outside in the real world is the best route to go n I rather succeed on that level
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.