"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What's better for picking up girls. Clubs/bars or the mall

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Yea I usually do the day game. At malls n train station but lately haven't got any good results. Only did the bar n club one time each a year ago. Is clubs better for getting girls for lays n such n why.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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YoungSir4sho said:
Because they're usually drunk, and drunk girls will do Anything.
 

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YoungSir4sho said:
Yea I usually do the day game. At malls n train station but lately haven't got any good results. Only did the bar n club one time each a year ago. Is clubs better for getting girls for lays n such n why.
The mall? I haven't gone there to pick up chicks since I was a sophomore in high school.

If you're looking for easy sex, clubs/bars hands down. If you're looking for a nice girl for an LTR, try bookstores or coffee shops. If you're looking to get busted on Dateline by Chris Hansen, try Myspace.
 

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Imma keep it real. I used to b the king of online dating. 1st im done wit all of the myspace n plentyoffish n other bs. Its jus a waste of time. I mean u might get lucky n get a couple of good ones but a lot of them got head cases.

Tell u the truth what's easier for lays is the phone chatlines. Like vibeline,tango,livelinks. Just get the freetrials n u get 60freeminutes. There's a secret for getting a lot of them also...

All in all talking to girls outside is the best way
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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As far as I'm concerned, meeting women at the malls is fine for high school.

My best luck usually comes from sports bars, as long as they're the trendy type, because most dive bars don't have cute ones. Clubs are alright as well, but I'm not a huge dancer. You can get away with it but not as often as at a sports bar.

I met a hottie at my local Cheers tonight. Just came up to say hi to the bartender, the girls next to me thought it was cool I knew the employees, then we started talking. Number closed her in a couple minutes then went on with life.
 

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YoungSir4sho said:
Yea I usually do the day game. At malls n train station but lately haven't got any good results. Only did the bar n club one time each a year ago. Is clubs better for getting girls for lays n such n why.
day game is easier than night game. But do both if you are single and really need some success asap.
 

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Imma keep it real. I used to b the king of online dating. 1st im done wit all of the myspace n plentyoffish n other bs. Its jus a waste of time. I mean u might get lucky n get a couple of good ones but a lot of them got head cases.

Tell u the truth what's easier for lays is the phone chatlines. Like vibeline,tango,livelinks. Just get the freetrials n u get 60freeminutes. There's a secret for getting a lot of them also...

All in all talking to girls outside is the best way
I'm really interested in hearing more about the phone chat lines. What city do you do this in? Do you actually meet these chicks in person? Are there actually women that use this that aren't fat and/or ugly? I've used every method under the sun to get laid except this, so I want to hear more.
 

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There's a lot of ugly n fat girls on there. But lickily there's a lot of decent n good lookin girls on there too. I've had to at least met 10girls from off their. All 8 of them looked good. 4 of them lays.

I live in nyc so at about 10pm n after about 8o and more girls b on the vibe chatline. N for livelinks about 60 sumthing n more till about 2am then it dies down. I suggest all to try it.

Of course outside in the real world is the best route to go n I rather succeed on that level
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just get the freetrials n u get 60freeminutes. There's a secret for getting a lot of them also...

All in all talking to girls outside is the best way

Whats the secret ?
 
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