"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Whats a proper way to react to this...

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Update: "I'm going to brunch with my friend Lauren but I think we're going there" so her brunch plans came through with her friend, but they are possibly going to the same place lol... atleast she will see me with someone else, that should get her head spinning and generate some competition lol

As for replying I shouldn't correct, let her head spin, or just be indifferent and say "cool"
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It won’t. She has low interest level.
That's what I figure, I definately won't be reaching out anymore, unless she contacts first. I know we will see eachother again just because of social circle, so I will just be indifferent
 
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