"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whats a proper way to react to this...

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Update: "I'm going to brunch with my friend Lauren but I think we're going there" so her brunch plans came through with her friend, but they are possibly going to the same place lol... atleast she will see me with someone else, that should get her head spinning and generate some competition lol

As for replying I shouldn't correct, let her head spin, or just be indifferent and say "cool"
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It won’t. She has low interest level.
That's what I figure, I definately won't be reaching out anymore, unless she contacts first. I know we will see eachother again just because of social circle, so I will just be indifferent
 
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