"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whats a proper way to react to this...

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Update: "I'm going to brunch with my friend Lauren but I think we're going there" so her brunch plans came through with her friend, but they are possibly going to the same place lol... atleast she will see me with someone else, that should get her head spinning and generate some competition lol

As for replying I shouldn't correct, let her head spin, or just be indifferent and say "cool"
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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EyeBRollin said:
It won’t. She has low interest level.
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That's what I figure, I definately won't be reaching out anymore, unless she contacts first. I know we will see eachother again just because of social circle, so I will just be indifferent
 
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