You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
i hope that you haven't sent the above text yet. Women (particularly this much younger) are likely even less humble. Your goal should be to project as much (or more) value than she's sold to you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That's not even worth a response. I'd forget her.
There are a lot of different angles you can approach this with. Most of which have already been stated, but our favorite is playing it cool and moving on.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Say nothing further - but DO make other plans. If she gives you an answer that she can meet up then I guess you can decide how you use your time at that point. If you never hear from her again then just move on without any further messages.
Just remember, the younger they are, the higher the flake ratio...
I am in texas so everything is open to 100% capacity. Yeah we are a little different here.
Well I already responded with, "ok just let me know" I didn't even think about "ok sounds good" I have used that in the past. But I have plans in the works for that day now...
No worries. Take care.
The question is why brunch?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well its a drag queen brunch and they are fun to go to... something out of the ordinary and they are alot of fun.
Are you trying to be her gay friend?
Not at all, good place to have some drinks and food, it's an all around fun time. Plus I have been out with her once before so it is something different. Would of already closed the deal but got blocked by my 8 yr old daughter...
Where I’m at you can’t sit down at Starbucks or McDonalds. Yet Brunch is ok where everyone is reaching in and grabbing everything and touching everything.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
All this strategy crap is nonsense. Just thinking about a strategy to get a girl on a date a man has already lost. Men know your value. Keep it short and simple: Looks like your schedule is up in the air, maybe some other time then. Have a good rest of the week!
Fvck COVID man, I choose pvssy over COVID anytime.
3rd date, first one was fun, 2nd one was horrible because she was obviously sick but she didn't want to reschedule with me since she had the day before, so I cut the Date short and just took her home. She blamed the vaccination, but who knows.
Low interest level. Withdraw the offer and delete her number. Move on to the next.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.