"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
whats a line i can use or activity i can do to get confidence up with cold approchin?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Senior Don Juan
hahah nice~!
[I bet santa felt that burn up there in the north pole!]
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
If you want openers, just search the forum and you'll find plenty. Some are good, some are not. Instead of having canned, default lines, try to observe the surroundings and comment on that. If you learn how to do that, you'll never run out of **** to say..Pace reality..
"Hey, what's shakin'?"
"Where's the toilet, I gotta **** bad."
Don't worry about it. Say hi. how it goes from there will be a magical journey into the mind, body and spirit of a young lady.
I KNOW THAT BUT JUST FOR MY FIRST FEW TO GET OVER FIRST HIRDLE I WANT A DEFAULT ONE THEN I WILL START BEING NATURALOriginally posted by \O/
How about "Hi"?
If you want openers, just search the forum and you'll find plenty. Some are good, some are not. Instead of having canned, default lines, try to observe the surroundings and comment on that. If you learn how to do that, you'll never run out of **** to say..Pace reality..
NO MORE JUST SAY HI OR TRYING TO GET ME TO DO SOME OTHER WAY JUST POST IF U CAN GIVE ME SOMETHING TO USE
YES I KNOW ITS CUASE I NERVOUS THAT I CANT THINK OF ANYTHING DUHH
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hi, That's like going to the airport, you know what I’m saying, when there like, are you aware of the contents of this bag; I’m like no. Did you pack this **** yourself; I’m like no. Did you leave this **** unintended; I don't know some mother****er might have left it under a trailer for a couple years."
"Wanna get drunk?"
Maverick001
Senior Don Juan
These are 2 different questions in the title of your post and since some of the other sosuavers have answered the question about opening lines...
The only way to get confidence with cold approaching is to do it. Now, going in with the expectation that you will either:
a) get rejected, or
b) not get rejected
will not help your confidence in making cold approaches because more than likely it`s going to be a) in the beginning.
Having said that, here`s an idea (one that I`ve tested myself and others that I offered up the idea to) - make cold approaches with the explicit purpose of getting a rejection. Go for 10.
In fact, why not do this with your friends, wings, etc. and make a game of it, even at a club or wherever. You`ll be surprised at the results and it will definitely help your confidence because you`re going in for the rejection and so you don`t care.
A simple line for this is, "Hi. What`s your phone no.?" or come up with whatever opener you want.
Try to go for the rejection purposely and see what happens in trying to amass 10 of these.
Just my 2 cents.
Cheers,
Mav
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
I hardly ever do strictly "cold" approaches. Experience has shown me there's a certain sequence of events that's expected. I "warm the approach up" first with eye contact and a smile. If she gives an indication of interest, then I know any move I make will at least be welcome at first.
I also like to openly flirt when I'm out, and interact with all sorts of gals, whether old or young, stunning or azz-ugly, which ends up encouraging women to hit on me, which happens quite often, even though I'm just a bit above average in looks, and well above average in age where I tend to hang out.
Why go through all the hassle of cold approaching all the time when making yourself approachable is so much easier and more effective?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
wheelin&dealin
Master Don Juan
Here's what I use:
"Are you from around here?"
"Where abouts?"
"How old are you?"
superchristx
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