hey guys, i've been always wonderin' how you think a dj behaves when he's in class... how should he sit? how much should he talk? should he chat with other people? should he keep eye contact with girls? write everythin' you can think of
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what's a dj behaviour durin' classes?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Everyones different. Some are quiet , some are loud. I like to do my work then talk, but that's just me. Unless its a class participating then I'll say whatever while were workin.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
just worry about your grades
I think that you should sit tall though not to be a DJ but because it is better for your back as a plus the girls seem to like a person who stands up straight as well as sit straight too.
I think that you should sit tall though not to be a DJ but because it is better for your back as a plus the girls seem to like a person who stands up straight as well as sit straight too.
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Dukester
Master Don Juan
you guys are all stupid!?
a DJ is confident and he lets everyone know about it. He talks to other people, esp HB's. He sits up straight, and lets nothing bother him.
He still pays attention in class, but makes tiem to work his game, even during class.
For all you that think this doesnt matter, you are wrong.
Why dont you sit like an azz, slouch, look like a scrub- then see how many HB's you get. He** you'll be lucky to get girls that rank 5
a DJ is confident and he lets everyone know about it. He talks to other people, esp HB's. He sits up straight, and lets nothing bother him.
He still pays attention in class, but makes tiem to work his game, even during class.
For all you that think this doesnt matter, you are wrong.
Why dont you sit like an azz, slouch, look like a scrub- then see how many HB's you get. He** you'll be lucky to get girls that rank 5
I dunno about you guys but most of the time in my classes I'm bored out of my mind.... So i'll slouch and stick my legs out to make myself comfortable, and once the lecture gets too boring I'll just pure be checkign out chicks.
If you're doing it I'm always obvious about it, so if you are just keeping cool and aren't shooting urself in the foot by acting nervous, or saying some dumb sht or looking uncomfortable in any way, you will be able to see a girl getting horny within a minute. You can notice it in her eyes by the way she'll look at you, her mouth will only be slightly open and legs spread out a bit. Once i had a girl sitting beside me start rubbing herself and getting off cuz she was so horny!
If you're doing it I'm always obvious about it, so if you are just keeping cool and aren't shooting urself in the foot by acting nervous, or saying some dumb sht or looking uncomfortable in any way, you will be able to see a girl getting horny within a minute. You can notice it in her eyes by the way she'll look at you, her mouth will only be slightly open and legs spread out a bit. Once i had a girl sitting beside me start rubbing herself and getting off cuz she was so horny!
Shut the **** up noobtard.
It's disrespectful to talk in class and I have enough respect for others to shut up. Anyone who is disturbing my concentration is going to hear about it. You're in class for 45 minutes. Hold your damn tongue and talk later.
I'll slouch all I want in class and still get chicks. I'll walk around naked and still get chicks. I'll walk with my head up my ass and get chicks. How about instead of spitting out everything you've read here you would take a second to think so I don't have to intervene? It's noobs like you that sicken me. Too much a chump to accept that he's still learning so he acts like he knows as if there is a shame in not knowing.
How about you work on growing some balls before spitting your filth on these boards?
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
How should he sit? Well, whatever's comfortable. That bookholder under the seat makes a nice footrest.
(Sitting sideways, if allowed, can also give you dual arm rests)You shouldn't really talk during class; Either take notes and listen, doodle, or sleep (to me, English is just naptime and a bedtime story). I understand that there are times when you can talk as much as you want, but for the most part, try not to be distruptive.
Eye contact with girls? I would say yes to the point where it's not extremely obvious to the teacher that you're not listening. Non-verbal communication is very important. Similes, winks, and kino (if she's in front of you) can all be very helpful.
Of course, if everyone's talking, join the fun.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
One more thing, the exact opposite of what I just stated also works. In my Math class, I just fùck around for the hour and I get tons of laughs. I'm not even trying to do it.
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AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
PMS?
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Well, what you gotta understand is, a DJ's behavior is not set in stone. Different DJs do different things, so the most important thing is to be comfortable and be natural with your actions. Just do that and it'll be ok. Trying to emulate cool people like me isn't gonna work too well, cuz 1) the coolness just isn't there yet, and 2) it's not really you...unless you're me...which you're not..
It's a question of respect and last I checked a DJ was a respectful person.Originally posted by AFK Protector
Well, what you gotta understand is, a DJ's behavior is not set in stone. Different DJs do different things, so the most important thing is to be comfortable and be natural with your actions. Just do that and it'll be ok. Trying to emulate cool people like me isn't gonna work too well, cuz 1) the coolness just isn't there yet, and 2) it's not really you...unless you're me...which you're not..
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Your definition of respect isn't universal. Chillax on the pills yo.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
double post!
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Er...who lied. My reading comprehension is poor.
btw, why put your energies into ranting at him? Not everyone can earn your respect, so you're b1tching at a lot of people there, my friend. Plus, you should give people a chance. I'm sure you f-ed up before, right? And this is just a forum. It's hopeless to try to win an argument unless extreme peer pressure is on your side.
so, you know, just accept your loss and move on. You can't win them all Lik...you can't win them all...
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
I wish I could talk outta my ass . . .
RaMar
Senior Don Juan
What about putting your head down on your desk during class?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.