hey guys, i've been always wonderin' how you think a dj behaves when he's in class... how should he sit? how much should he talk? should he chat with other people? should he keep eye contact with girls? write everythin' you can think of
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Shut the **** up noobtard.Originally posted by Dukester
you guys are all stupid!?
a DJ is confident and he lets everyone know about it. He talks to other people, esp HB's. He sits up straight, and lets nothing bother him.
He still pays attention in class, but makes tiem to work his game, even during class.
For all you that think this doesnt matter, you are wrong.
Why dont you sit like an azz, slouch, look like a scrub- then see how many HB's you get. He** you'll be lucky to get girls that rank 5
How should he sit? Well, whatever's comfortable. That bookholder under the seat makes a nice footrest.Originally posted by Jay-X
hey guys, i've been always wonderin' how you think a dj behaves when he's in class... how should he sit? how much should he talk? should he chat with other people? should he keep eye contact with girls? write everythin' you can think of
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PMS?Originally posted by LikRetsam
Shut the **** up noobtard.
It's disrespectful to talk in class and I have enough respect for others to shut up. Anyone who is disturbing my concentration is going to hear about it. You're in class for 45 minutes. Hold your damn tongue and talk later.
I'll slouch all I want in class and still get chicks. I'll walk around naked and still get chicks. I'll walk with my head up my ass and get chicks. How about instead of spitting out everything you've read here you would take a second to think so I don't have to intervene? It's noobs like you that sicken me. Too much a chump to accept that he's still learning so he acts like he knows as if there is a shame in not knowing.
How about you work on growing some balls before spitting your filth on these boards?
It's a question of respect and last I checked a DJ was a respectful person.Originally posted by AFK Protector
Well, what you gotta understand is, a DJ's behavior is not set in stone. Different DJs do different things, so the most important thing is to be comfortable and be natural with your actions. Just do that and it'll be ok. Trying to emulate cool people like me isn't gonna work too well, cuz 1) the coolness just isn't there yet, and 2) it's not really you...unless you're me...which you're not..![]()
Your definition of respect isn't universal. Chillax on the pills yo.Originally posted by LikRetsam
It's a question of respect and last I checked a DJ was a respectful person.
It's universal. If a person loses my respect, you see what you saw above. He lied. I lost respect.Originally posted by AFK Protector
Your definition of respect isn't universal. Chillax on the pills yo.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Er...who lied. My reading comprehension is poor.Originally posted by LikRetsam
It's universal. If a person loses my respect, you see what you saw above. He lied. I lost respect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.