"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Whats a Cool way to ask a girl to homecoming

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Ian Gots Game

Banned
Joined
Mar 26, 2005
Messages
48
Reaction score
0
Age
38
Brak dont f*cking post that sh*t.

I just got my date today. We aren't bf gf but we like each other. I gave her a hand mirror, with balloons and a note tied to it, saying: "Take a look at the beautiful girl i would like to take to homecoming" -Ian
My best friend made a HUGE sign, 16X30 feet and painted. "THESE WORDS ARE MY OWN... WILL YOU GO TO HOMECOMING WITH ME LOVE TREVOR" and put it up on the outside of the school where people walk in.
Another buddy made WANTED signs w/ a pic of her and her name saying something to the effect of "Surrendor yourself to Mr. Brady Jackson, the night of Sept. 17". He made like 75 copies and put them all over school.

Good luck
 

jenzos

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 29, 2005
Messages
88
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by Ian Gots Game
Brak dont f*cking post that sh*t.

I just got my date today. We aren't bf gf but we like each other. I gave her a hand mirror, with balloons and a note tied to it, saying: "Take a look at the beautiful girl i would like to take to homecoming" -Ian
My best friend made a HUGE sign, 16X30 feet and painted. "THESE WORDS ARE MY OWN... WILL YOU GO TO HOMECOMING WITH ME LOVE TREVOR" and put it up on the outside of the school where people walk in.
Another buddy made WANTED signs w/ a pic of her and her name saying something to the effect of "Surrendor yourself to Mr. Brady Jackson, the night of Sept. 17". He made like 75 copies and put them all over school.

Good luck
You wouldnt happen to live in laguna beach would you?

It seems at most "normal" schools (dare i use that :) ) - Or maybe just at my school - girls would be kinda weirded out / everyone would be weirded out. I would go for the simple "building her a cake" but thats just me.


haha. uhhh other that actually asking her your very limited on non-weird things listed above such as the poop writiing, and wanted signs.
 

Wonderbread166

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2004
Messages
235
Reaction score
1
Location
NY
A cool way? Go up to her and ask her.




Oh, right, I forgot. You don't want to do that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

The Comeback Kid

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2005
Messages
591
Reaction score
5
Originally posted by Wonderbread166
A cool way? Go up to her and ask her.




Oh, right, I forgot. You don't want to do that.
That's probably what I'll do when/if I ask a girl to my Homecoming. As for Ian, that sounds almost "movie-like." It seemed to work for you, but like someone else said, at most schools, it would look odd. Even building a cake is a little overboard IMO.

I agree with wonderbread - I think asking her (maybe adding a small twist) is the best way to do it.
 

jenzos

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 29, 2005
Messages
88
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by The Comeback Kid
Even building a cake is a little overboard IMO.
no worries. that was just a poor attempt at being funny by me :)
 

GirlInTheHat

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 10, 2005
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Age
37
Location
Jolly Old England
IMO, anything romantic, but not oestentatious.

For example, I know I'd be freaked out by a giant poster, or 100 flyers...

Things don't have to be huge to make a big impression.

For example, if she drives then you could leave a card/peice of paper with a message written on it in/on her car, or maybe slip a note into her bag...

Notes are a great method for shy guys too.

Be original too- a $1.95 store bought card doesnt do much for anyone.
 

GateKeeper

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 5, 2005
Messages
62
Reaction score
0
YOU: I'm a little worried about something...

HER: What is it?

YOU: It's about us...

HER: Us???

YOU: Yah, I just feel... it's kind of hard to say... your a bit too boring for me.

HER: WHAT!! What do you mean by that? How am I boring!?

YOU: Well, you see, in the past I've been with girls who like to party, dance, and have fun. Evertime I'm with you, we just joke and talk. That's happy, sunny and peachy... but you want to have fun too right?

HER: Yes?

YOU: Well, are you the type of girl who can be exciting and not boring? Can you dance, can you have fun?

HER: Yes! I can!

YOU: I don't really believe you... Prove it.

HER: How?

YOU: Well... *pause for a while* Take me to Homecoming and show me if your fun.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((()))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
If she likes you... DONE DEAL.
OR
YOU: Hey, want to go to homecoming with me and some other friends on Friday?

Either or is fine...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

B-Lemond

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 9, 2005
Messages
1,007
Reaction score
10
Location
On The Road to Self-Improvement
"My mommy told me that I have to ask YOU to homecoming."

Anyway why would you want a date to homecoming? At are school almost NO_ONE, ok maybe some people, have dates.
 

True Wolf

Don Juan
Joined
May 28, 2005
Messages
187
Reaction score
0
Location
WA
I don't even know when my homecoming is:D I personally like the wanted poster idea, but just put one on her locker, that would be less weird.

But then again i'm a direct person and the very thought of asking someone in a note has been purged from my thoughts.
 

08aisaac

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 22, 2005
Messages
740
Reaction score
1
Age
36
Write it on your forehead, or better yet, write it on her forehead when she isn't looking, then she will look in the mirror, and flip out.
 

Docs

Banned
Joined
Jul 27, 2005
Messages
3,571
Reaction score
56
Location
Kingston, Can-a-duh
take a building material stapler, about 20 sheets of paper that each read "I want you to come to HC, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH", with your own personal signature.

Take staple gun, staple the 20 sheets of paper onto her locker. That way, even if she doesn't want to go..she's got a constant reminder of how much of a handyman you can be.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

The Master Disaster

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 30, 2005
Messages
510
Reaction score
2
Take some rope a piece of paper and a needle. Follow steps exactly:
1. Make a noose with the rope.
2. Take the neelde prick ur finger.
3. Use ur finger that is bleeding and then write:
"Go to homecoming with me or i'll kill myself"
4. Take the rope hold it in your right hand
5. Take it to her and hold the rope.
 
Top