"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Whatever happened to the free love generation?

Marty

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If you're old enough to remember the 60's and 70's,you're old enough to remember the free love days.It was a time when labels like "slut" and "stud" were supposed to be meaningless.We were fighting the sexual revolution trying to free society of their hangups and labels.What happened to that,guys?I had fun and I miss it.It seems that no matter what,people love their role playing,their labels and their hangups.Nothing changed.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Caveman

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Originally posted by Marty
Whatever happened to the free love generation?
They got up and went back to work.

Seriously, I would have enjoyed that time.. Could we start a new 'love generation'? :cool:
 

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They grew up.


Everything that is extreme will be moderated over time. During the 80s extreme capitalism was afoot, but during the 90s "social responsibility" became the war cry.

Similiarly, I tend to think that the 60s/70s "f*ck all you like" days were moderated.

However the chicks looked ugly back then, so I probably wouldn't like them.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
They grew up.


Everything that is extreme will be moderated over time. During the 80s extreme capitalism was afoot, but during the 90s "social responsibility" became the war cry.

Similiarly, I tend to think that the 60s/70s "f*ck all you like" days were moderated.

However the chicks looked ugly back then, so I probably wouldn't like them.

Add to this the emergence of HIV and the rebirth of Christian Fundamentalism in the 70's and 80's and you have your answer.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The sixties were a failure as a decade.

We have the 60s to thank for our current divorce rates and swelling numbers of children born out-of-wedlock.

All the classifications that you mentioned developped for a reason, generally for the overall good of society (even at the cost of inhibiting some actions).

And as others said, people were forced into personal accountability at work. And then AIDS.
 
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