"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Whatever happened to the free love generation?

Marty

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If you're old enough to remember the 60's and 70's,you're old enough to remember the free love days.It was a time when labels like "slut" and "stud" were supposed to be meaningless.We were fighting the sexual revolution trying to free society of their hangups and labels.What happened to that,guys?I had fun and I miss it.It seems that no matter what,people love their role playing,their labels and their hangups.Nothing changed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Caveman

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Originally posted by Marty
Whatever happened to the free love generation?
They got up and went back to work.

Seriously, I would have enjoyed that time.. Could we start a new 'love generation'? :cool:
 

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They grew up.


Everything that is extreme will be moderated over time. During the 80s extreme capitalism was afoot, but during the 90s "social responsibility" became the war cry.

Similiarly, I tend to think that the 60s/70s "f*ck all you like" days were moderated.

However the chicks looked ugly back then, so I probably wouldn't like them.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
They grew up.


Everything that is extreme will be moderated over time. During the 80s extreme capitalism was afoot, but during the 90s "social responsibility" became the war cry.

Similiarly, I tend to think that the 60s/70s "f*ck all you like" days were moderated.

However the chicks looked ugly back then, so I probably wouldn't like them.

Add to this the emergence of HIV and the rebirth of Christian Fundamentalism in the 70's and 80's and you have your answer.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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akindofblue

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The sixties were a failure as a decade.

We have the 60s to thank for our current divorce rates and swelling numbers of children born out-of-wedlock.

All the classifications that you mentioned developped for a reason, generally for the overall good of society (even at the cost of inhibiting some actions).

And as others said, people were forced into personal accountability at work. And then AIDS.
 
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