I'm guessing all this hot-and-cold/on-off behavior is just part of the game nowadays? I don't remember women being like this when I was younger, but now it happens to me all the time--not just IRL but on apps too.
In fact, my first post on this forum was about a (surfer) girl who would talk-to/flirt-with/hit-on me on an intermittent basis for months. One day acting all into me; the next ignoring me if I tried to talk to her. She'd come back in a couple weeks and do it all again--over and over for months. I can't believe I actually entertained this nonsense for so long.
The weird thing was, even though she'd be rude and ignore me if I talked to her, she'd hover around me and constantly stare. She'd do all the things dating gurus talk about: mirror my behavior; laugh at my (even not funny) antics; hair flipping; talking loudly with her friends...it was all there, but she wouldn't mess with me beyond that.
Eventually I pretty much told her to pound sand and ignored her after that (she continued to stare tho). She chose somebody else (or maybe he was in the picture the whole time?) and moved to a different city, but right before she left she just came up to me one day and talked for like an hour. And she actually looked sad when she left. Go figure.
Maybe it's all the options girls have these days? And they just string along a "bull pen" of dudes that they pick the best out of? Maybe I should just stop interacting with surfer chicks? Who knows? LOL
