Trainwreck
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This happened to a friend of mine and it was awkward af. I know I would have a private little talk afterwards lol.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What would you do if your plate/gf freaked out if you looked at her phone
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
AlexKaiser
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That's where she keeps her BJ videos. That's where she keeps her nudes and lewds. Its where all of her weirdest and nastiest convos are kept. It's where she stores the info of all the men she's ****ed, some of them she wants to keep secret out of shame or because they're married/committed. Everything she won't tell you, her phone's info will.
Nowadays women store their entire life on their phone, and guard it as vehemently that a weaboo would guard his hentai stash.
I remember this one girl I worked with left her phone unlocked and on the table to take an unwarranted 25 min break, and I spent my time just scrolling through her stuff. While she did have a boyfriend and praised loyalty, played the good christian girl, found out a lot just from a few nosy button presses. Slinging nudes, talking about wanting to be ****ed without her bf knowing, dressing up in the bathroom for guys (like snapping pictures of her slutty lingerie in the mirror I cleaned), and getting utterly depraved in the chat. Apparently she dumps the kids off on him, goes to visit her "mom", but not really, she's doing quickies in another guy's truck.
When you get ahold of a girl's phone you learn EVERYTHING she doesn't tell you. Many more experience girls know to lock their phones, and delete conversations (or use snapchat so their convos are auto-deleted), so yeah. If you ask to look at your GF's phone, and they hesitate, its guaranteed that they have something they don't want you to learn. Otherwise it would've been filled with convos of her just saying no and i have a bf.
Nowadays women store their entire life on their phone, and guard it as vehemently that a weaboo would guard his hentai stash.
I remember this one girl I worked with left her phone unlocked and on the table to take an unwarranted 25 min break, and I spent my time just scrolling through her stuff. While she did have a boyfriend and praised loyalty, played the good christian girl, found out a lot just from a few nosy button presses. Slinging nudes, talking about wanting to be ****ed without her bf knowing, dressing up in the bathroom for guys (like snapping pictures of her slutty lingerie in the mirror I cleaned), and getting utterly depraved in the chat. Apparently she dumps the kids off on him, goes to visit her "mom", but not really, she's doing quickies in another guy's truck.
When you get ahold of a girl's phone you learn EVERYTHING she doesn't tell you. Many more experience girls know to lock their phones, and delete conversations (or use snapchat so their convos are auto-deleted), so yeah. If you ask to look at your GF's phone, and they hesitate, its guaranteed that they have something they don't want you to learn. Otherwise it would've been filled with convos of her just saying no and i have a bf.
wifehunter
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I don't touch other peoples phones unless asked. It's intrusive and rude.
El Payaso
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It means she's probably cheating on him.
People in general just aren't loyal. You want loyalty? Get a dog. Just make sure you feed it.
This girl I know has a boyfriend. He's in the army. He just left on deployment. She was gushing and posting on her social media about how she will miss him, how he's so good and blah..blah...blah.
Guess what? She's on Tinder and she sends nudes to guys. I don't want to say she's also getting fvcked but 95% chance she probably is.
People in general just aren't loyal. You want loyalty? Get a dog. Just make sure you feed it.
This girl I know has a boyfriend. He's in the army. He just left on deployment. She was gushing and posting on her social media about how she will miss him, how he's so good and blah..blah...blah.
Guess what? She's on Tinder and she sends nudes to guys. I don't want to say she's also getting fvcked but 95% chance she probably is.
AlexKaiser
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I know who I'm giving flowers to this Memorial Day. Poor guy. He's basically already dead.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
shesabranchswinger
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Keep spinning downgrade her to a lower position
lizardking82
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I don't want my phone touched by anyone so I don't touch anyone's phone. You could have saved yourself time and this thread by learning about other people's privacy. If your gut cannot trust a girl, act on it and keep away cause your gut is probably right. Don't become a little voyeur that goes through other people's phones.