Trainwreck
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 13, 2016
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- 31
This happened to a friend of mine and it was awkward af. I know I would have a private little talk afterwards lol.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I know who I'm giving flowers to this Memorial Day. Poor guy. He's basically already dead.It means she's probably cheating on him.
People in general just aren't loyal. You want loyalty? Get a dog. Just make sure you feed it.
This girl I know has a boyfriend. He's in the army. He just left on deployment. She was gushing and posting on her social media about how she will miss him, how he's so good and blah..blah...blah.
Guess what? She's on Tinder and she sends nudes to guys. I don't want to say she's also getting fvcked but 95% chance she probably is.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.