Trainwreck
Master Don Juan
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- Sep 13, 2016
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This happened to a friend of mine and it was awkward af. I know I would have a private little talk afterwards lol.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I know who I'm giving flowers to this Memorial Day. Poor guy. He's basically already dead.It means she's probably cheating on him.
People in general just aren't loyal. You want loyalty? Get a dog. Just make sure you feed it.
This girl I know has a boyfriend. He's in the army. He just left on deployment. She was gushing and posting on her social media about how she will miss him, how he's so good and blah..blah...blah.
Guess what? She's on Tinder and she sends nudes to guys. I don't want to say she's also getting fvcked but 95% chance she probably is.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.