Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
first things first, yes everybody can do that...
we are asking what to do AFTER she is alright
we are asking what to do AFTER she is alright
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What would you do if your gf was raped?
- Thread starter B-Lemond
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This is indeed a touchy subject. I'd probably just totally lose my cool, find out who did it and beat the guy unconscious! While he is unconscious, I'd cut the guys Whinner off, fry them and force him to eat them!
Sarcasim side, I'd make sure my girl would get all the attention, support and thearphy she would need and if the need arouse, an abortion.
To mroriginal: :crackup:
Sarcasim side, I'd make sure my girl would get all the attention, support and thearphy she would need and if the need arouse, an abortion.
To mroriginal: :crackup:
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Quit fagging up this thread. Let the real men discuss this while you go read americanwomensuck.com and pray for a Russian mail-order bride.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Hope to all the gods I respond to the situation sanely, and as effectively as possible, and am as helpful to her as humanly possible afterward.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
After I got done calling the police.
Rape alone doesn't get you much cred when you're in a federal pen. If he got caught (and I realize that's a big if) I'd make sure to go to his court hearing and urge my girl to push for the maximum sentance. Hopefully he'd get a taste of his own medicine while on lock down. After the trial I'd laugh "Dont' drop the soap pal!" as he's escourted out.
After i've gone through the motions even if nothing happens I'd do my best to console my g/f and hope she doesn't go insane or is pregnant by the dude.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
does she know him enough for the police to catch him?
and has she done a rape kit to see if shes pregnant? if so, target wont fill the plan b pill, go to walgreens or cvs or riteaide
penkitten
Master Don Juan
it takes a very long time to be ok after that which is why i suggested therapy and immediately if possible is best.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Anyone who would stay with a girlfriend after she was raped is a fool. She will be far too emotionally damaged to salvage. Why invest any more time into her when she is a lost cause?
Obviously some of you guys haven't really experienced too much of life if you're oblivious to that fact.
Obviously some of you guys haven't really experienced too much of life if you're oblivious to that fact.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
wtf is wrong with you and your rape is good but illegal crap? rape is evil and no one deserves to be violated.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
lol pin
penkitten
Master Don Juan
enlighten us
tell us why you feel all men think of rape ? is it like a thought or a daydream ?
tell us why you feel all men think of rape ? is it like a thought or a daydream ?
it entails occasional daydreams for me. i figure its probably a byproduct of the male sexual-dominance psychology.
ive done polls on other forums, not ALL males (allegedly) think about it, but roughly half will admit to it via anonymous poll.
We all understand what you're trying to say, but we don't agree. I think anyone is entitled to his own opinion, but I think most people wouldn't be able to rape women even if there weren't any laws against it. Personally, I wouldn't be able to have sex with a lady that doesn't enjoy it or is not even into it.
Adone
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.