Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
first things first, yes everybody can do that...
we are asking what to do AFTER she is alright
we are asking what to do AFTER she is alright
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Quit fagging up this thread. Let the real men discuss this while you go read americanwomensuck.com and pray for a Russian mail-order bride.Originally posted by italostud
Uhm, how do you figure?
Who cares? She's damaged goods now.
After I got done calling the police.Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Pray & Comfort her.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"real men" lol. Gay.Originally posted by MetalFortress
Quit fagging up this thread. Let the real men discuss this while you go read americanwomensuck.com and pray for a Russian mail-order bride.
does she know him enough for the police to catch him?Originally posted by PRMoon
After I got done calling the police.
Rape alone doesn't get you much cred when you're in a federal pen. If he got caught (and I realize that's a big if) I'd make sure to go to his court hearing and urge my girl to push for the maximum sentance. Hopefully he'd get a taste of his own medicine while on lock down. After the trial I'd laugh "Dont' drop the soap pal!" as he's escourted out.
After i've gone through the motions even if nothing happens I'd do my best to console my g/f and hope she doesn't go insane or is pregnant by the dude.
it takes a very long time to be ok after that which is why i suggested therapy and immediately if possible is best.Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
first things first, yes everybody can do that...
we are asking what to do AFTER she is alright
Originally posted by MetalFortress
Quit fagging up this thread. Let the real men discuss this while you go read americanwomensuck.com and pray for a Russian mail-order bride.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Originally posted by italostud
Anyone who would stay with a girlfriend after she was raped is a fool. She will be far too emotionally damaged to salvage. Why invest any more time into her when she is a lost cause?
Obviously some of you guys haven't really experienced too much of life if you're oblivious to that fact.
wtf is wrong with you and your rape is good but illegal crap? rape is evil and no one deserves to be violated.Originally posted by PurplePimp
rape is not wrong but in some places it is illegal
why woman no rape man? because man like rape
i bet every one of you here once thought about rape a girl
you know when you very horny and just no sex long time.
but it illegal and you know better
so we masterbate when we can rape. but rape is good. governement is bad not rape.
i think some people hate wrong person. you boys need to hate governement.
blue how old is your gf?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
it entails occasional daydreams for me. i figure its probably a byproduct of the male sexual-dominance psychology.Originally posted by penkitten
enlighten us
tell us why you feel all men think of rape ? is it like a thought or a daydream ?
Originally posted by PurplePimp
you know when you horny and with woman you like to rip off clothes fast and get to fast?
i say when you very much want to do her but you have no women that day or month
and you in store or out and see pretty lady close. you look at ass and tit and want to how you say "ravage" lady.
(i get word from room mate arsen. he speak better english. he agree with me about rape thought)
any way i say when you feel like this and would like to do lady you do not because you know it is rape
but you act very same way when she is your gf and in your room
to adult man here please explain if you know what i say
i am not only one. arsen say also.
Oh yeah and those polls on forums are so sceintific and don't violate any rules of a proper study.Originally posted by piranha45
it entails occasional daydreams for me. i figure its probably a byproduct of the male sexual-dominance psychology.
ive done polls on other forums, not ALL males (allegedly) think about it, but roughly half will admit to it via anonymous poll.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.