Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
first things first, yes everybody can do that...
we are asking what to do AFTER she is alright
we are asking what to do AFTER she is alright
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Quit fagging up this thread. Let the real men discuss this while you go read americanwomensuck.com and pray for a Russian mail-order bride.Originally posted by italostud
Uhm, how do you figure?
Who cares? She's damaged goods now.
After I got done calling the police.Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
Pray & Comfort her.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"real men" lol. Gay.Originally posted by MetalFortress
Quit fagging up this thread. Let the real men discuss this while you go read americanwomensuck.com and pray for a Russian mail-order bride.
does she know him enough for the police to catch him?Originally posted by PRMoon
After I got done calling the police.
Rape alone doesn't get you much cred when you're in a federal pen. If he got caught (and I realize that's a big if) I'd make sure to go to his court hearing and urge my girl to push for the maximum sentance. Hopefully he'd get a taste of his own medicine while on lock down. After the trial I'd laugh "Dont' drop the soap pal!" as he's escourted out.
After i've gone through the motions even if nothing happens I'd do my best to console my g/f and hope she doesn't go insane or is pregnant by the dude.
it takes a very long time to be ok after that which is why i suggested therapy and immediately if possible is best.Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
first things first, yes everybody can do that...
we are asking what to do AFTER she is alright
Originally posted by MetalFortress
Quit fagging up this thread. Let the real men discuss this while you go read americanwomensuck.com and pray for a Russian mail-order bride.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Originally posted by italostud
Anyone who would stay with a girlfriend after she was raped is a fool. She will be far too emotionally damaged to salvage. Why invest any more time into her when she is a lost cause?
Obviously some of you guys haven't really experienced too much of life if you're oblivious to that fact.
wtf is wrong with you and your rape is good but illegal crap? rape is evil and no one deserves to be violated.Originally posted by PurplePimp
rape is not wrong but in some places it is illegal
why woman no rape man? because man like rape
i bet every one of you here once thought about rape a girl
you know when you very horny and just no sex long time.
but it illegal and you know better
so we masterbate when we can rape. but rape is good. governement is bad not rape.
i think some people hate wrong person. you boys need to hate governement.
blue how old is your gf?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
it entails occasional daydreams for me. i figure its probably a byproduct of the male sexual-dominance psychology.Originally posted by penkitten
enlighten us
tell us why you feel all men think of rape ? is it like a thought or a daydream ?
Originally posted by PurplePimp
you know when you horny and with woman you like to rip off clothes fast and get to fast?
i say when you very much want to do her but you have no women that day or month
and you in store or out and see pretty lady close. you look at ass and tit and want to how you say "ravage" lady.
(i get word from room mate arsen. he speak better english. he agree with me about rape thought)
any way i say when you feel like this and would like to do lady you do not because you know it is rape
but you act very same way when she is your gf and in your room
to adult man here please explain if you know what i say
i am not only one. arsen say also.
Oh yeah and those polls on forums are so sceintific and don't violate any rules of a proper study.Originally posted by piranha45
it entails occasional daydreams for me. i figure its probably a byproduct of the male sexual-dominance psychology.
ive done polls on other forums, not ALL males (allegedly) think about it, but roughly half will admit to it via anonymous poll.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.