"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What would a girl think of eating her out before first sex?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
At your age, don't even worry about the girl orgasming. That's mostly a mental thing for women, and if she hasn't figured it out yet, there's nothing you're going to do to make it happen. So just don't worry about it.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
There are plenty who only do oral leading up to real first time sex. In my opinion I'd break the hymen and then eat her, since sex WILL not be pleasurable for her the first time. But you can make it good for her by eating her after the break thru.
Visually inspect that the hymen is there to make sure she's not lying to you. It looks like a flap of tissue covering the vaginal canal, either with a bunch of small holes (perforations) or a large hole that limits what can go thru it.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mr. Kalikoat
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Euhm, that is NOT what a hymen looks like.
The state of the hymen is also NOT a solid indicator on whether the chick is still a virgin or not.
Just sayin'.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I've seen a couple. And they jived with what's in medical encyclopedia. They bled and all the tissue is not torn away until several conjugations. Like labia there are varieties of hymen!
Mr. Kalikoat
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I've seen a ton because almost all women have them (its not like the hymen just disappears after sex). I've only seen 2 that were still in tact though and they did not match your description. One of them didn't bleed either.
A quick search on wikipedia reveals your initial info isn't entirely accurate.
I would not recommend the OP to go looking for the hymen to see of she's lying about her virginity.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The ones I've seen were intact. I was ages 16-19 then and those ladies hadn't even been penetrated with a tampon. Most ladies after I've never notice visible remnants of the hymen.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mr. Kalikoat
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champagne bottle cap,i mean what else could they possibly use hahahah
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Maxipads. They didn't want to break their hymen, and also it would've "hurt".