"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What would a girl think of eating her out before first sex?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
At your age, don't even worry about the girl orgasming. That's mostly a mental thing for women, and if she hasn't figured it out yet, there's nothing you're going to do to make it happen. So just don't worry about it.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
There are plenty who only do oral leading up to real first time sex. In my opinion I'd break the hymen and then eat her, since sex WILL not be pleasurable for her the first time. But you can make it good for her by eating her after the break thru.
Visually inspect that the hymen is there to make sure she's not lying to you. It looks like a flap of tissue covering the vaginal canal, either with a bunch of small holes (perforations) or a large hole that limits what can go thru it.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Euhm, that is NOT what a hymen looks like.
The state of the hymen is also NOT a solid indicator on whether the chick is still a virgin or not.
Just sayin'.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I've seen a couple. And they jived with what's in medical encyclopedia. They bled and all the tissue is not torn away until several conjugations. Like labia there are varieties of hymen!
Mr. Kalikoat
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I've seen a ton because almost all women have them (its not like the hymen just disappears after sex). I've only seen 2 that were still in tact though and they did not match your description. One of them didn't bleed either.
A quick search on wikipedia reveals your initial info isn't entirely accurate.
I would not recommend the OP to go looking for the hymen to see of she's lying about her virginity.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
The ones I've seen were intact. I was ages 16-19 then and those ladies hadn't even been penetrated with a tampon. Most ladies after I've never notice visible remnants of the hymen.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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champagne bottle cap,i mean what else could they possibly use hahahah
mrgoodstuff
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Maxipads. They didn't want to break their hymen, and also it would've "hurt".