"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What would a girl think of eating her out before first sex?

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She is a virgin and I would just rather eat her out the first time, just bring her to orgasm with cunnilingus and then go in her without worrying about coming too soon (I'm on nofap and I will *** too early) 17yo
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey it's not fapping if there is a girl in the room. Have her get you off somehow first, wait a few minutes, and then go again.

At your age, don't even worry about the girl orgasming. That's mostly a mental thing for women, and if she hasn't figured it out yet, there's nothing you're going to do to make it happen. So just don't worry about it.
 
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She is a virgin and I would just rather eat her out the first time, just bring her to orgasm with cunnilingus and then go in her without worrying about coming too soon (I'm on nofap and I will *** too early) 17yo
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There are plenty who only do oral leading up to real first time sex. In my opinion I'd break the hymen and then eat her, since sex WILL not be pleasurable for her the first time. But you can make it good for her by eating her after the break thru.

Visually inspect that the hymen is there to make sure she's not lying to you. It looks like a flap of tissue covering the vaginal canal, either with a bunch of small holes (perforations) or a large hole that limits what can go thru it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrgoodstuff said:
Visually inspect that the hymen is there to make sure she's not lying to you. It looks like a flap of tissue covering the vaginal canal, either with a bunch of small holes (perforations) or a large hole that limits what can go thru it.
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Euhm, that is NOT what a hymen looks like.

The state of the hymen is also NOT a solid indicator on whether the chick is still a virgin or not.

Just sayin'.
 
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Euhm, that is NOT what a hymen looks like.

The state of the hymen is also NOT a solid indicator on whether the chick is still a virgin or not.

Just sayin'.
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I've seen a couple. And they jived with what's in medical encyclopedia. They bled and all the tissue is not torn away until several conjugations. Like labia there are varieties of hymen!
 
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She would be too grossed out about her body odor for you to go down on her, the only way your going to get her off is finger bang her.
 
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I've seen a couple. And they jived with what's in medical encyclopedia. They bled and all the tissue is not torn away until several conjugations. Like labia there are varieties of hymen!
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I've seen a ton because almost all women have them (its not like the hymen just disappears after sex). I've only seen 2 that were still in tact though and they did not match your description. One of them didn't bleed either.

A quick search on wikipedia reveals your initial info isn't entirely accurate.

I would not recommend the OP to go looking for the hymen to see of she's lying about her virginity.
 
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Mr. Kalikoat said:
I've seen a ton because almost all women have them (its not like the hymen just disappears after sex). I've only seen 2 that were still in tact though and they did not match your description. One of them didn't bleed either.

A quick search on wikipedia reveals your initial info isn't entirely accurate.

I would not recommend the OP to go looking for the hymen to see of she's lying about her virginity.
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The ones I've seen were intact. I was ages 16-19 then and those ladies hadn't even been penetrated with a tampon. Most ladies after I've never notice visible remnants of the hymen.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mrgoodstuff said:
The ones I've seen were intact. I was ages 16-19 then and those ladies hadn't even been penetrated with a tampon. Most ladies after I've never notice visible remnants of the hymen.
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16-19 and never used a tampon?

Wtf did they use during their periods then?
 
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